And so we come to the Christmas season.
For many it’s a time of buying and receiving presents, for last minute shopping, for stocking the house with enough food to last through a blizzard.
For my kids (21 and 24) their presents come care of Oxfam Unwrapped and Kiva.org. Both are causes we think are worthwhile and are ones where we are thinking of others less fortunate than ourselves. We have no need of gadgets and presents – we have enough of them – oh, we might WANT more but we sure don’t need them.
We spend Christmas Day with just us – Jon, Emma, and me. Both are working now and will work up to and after Christmas so it’s a day of rest for them both. We’ll watch favorite videos, and play family games, and yes, we’ll do a bit of eating too. But it’s also a time to remember family who are no longer with us: Dad – who died in September 1987; Mum – who died in January 2006; and my nephew Mark who died much too young.
At mum’s funeral I spoke about the ‘lessons’ I’d learnt from her:
- You’re never too old to do something new
- Always try to do the thing or things you’re passionate about
- Don’t give up just because things seem impossible
- You don’t have to be young or a male to influence other people
- People aren’t important because of possessions or money, they’re important because they’re people
- Music is a universal language – you don’t have to understand the words to feel the emotion
- You don’t have to stop working just because the government says it’s time for you to stop
- Even if you can’t travel you don’t have to remain ignorant of other peoples and cultures
- You can’t judge something you have no experience of
- Rules made by men are not necessarily the same as what God would say
- You’re never too old to be a rebel